That is the last concession I’ll make to what I feel (what an old cynic!) is just another special and genuinely romantic day that has been very successfully hijacked by sellers of cards, red roses and expensive meals, and hoteliers and even some holiday cottage owners (not all!). It’s big business, creating such tensions of expectations and obligations- and inevitable disappointment and humiliation for many.
Am I wrong, but used it not to be a time when shy would-be suitors sent almost anonymous messages or cards to someone they had not yet dared, or had the opportunity, to tell of their feelings? ‘Will you be my Valentine?’ It was truly exciting to receive such a card. Now one sees crowds of harassed looking people scouring the rows and rows of largely ghastly cards, all with a red rose or two and almost all with a couple of tipsily angled glasses of champagne possibly with glittery bubbles all around. Most people will be expecting one (or more) as their right, not enchanted by their arrival…
And driving through Matlock this evening I spied well more than one harassed looking men coming out of a supermarket clutching a bunch of red roses swathed in cellophane decorated – you’ve guessed it – with the obligatory red roses. Their expression spoke of fulfilled obligation, not undying love!
Why keep the romance and expressions of love for one day, say I?
Happy New Year to you all. We are about to celebrate the start of our 3rd year as the owners of Orchard Farm and Tom’s and Douglas’s Barns. We are still loving every minute of it and really enjoying all the lovely people and dogs that come to stay in the Barns. This year by […]
The Parwich Church, Hall & Legion are holding there Christmas Fayre on Sunday 4th December. The fayre will be opened by the Deputy Mayor, Councillor Denise Brown at 3pm. The church is open 3 – 5pm, the Hall and Legion 4-6pm. The Chameleon Choral Coir will perform in the Hall and the Legion and there […]
The Sycamore Inn in Parwich has recently changed manager and has a complete refurbish. The pub is fully functional now with food being served at lunchtime and at evenings. Sunday there is a Sunday Roast. Can be recommended. Congratulations to White’s In Ashbourne who have been awarded The Food Awards England 2016 Restaurant of the […]